Being at purpose on purpose.   Feeling free to pick and choose what works for you. Choosing what you want.   Giving yourself permission to create the life that you want.  Wow! Me pick what I want?   Isn’t that selfish?   What right do I have to put what I want ahead of everyone else?  

In fact, isn’t what everyone else wants more important than what I want?  Just threw that question in to see if I could catch you.   Maybe you think that once everybody is happy and have what they want, then it will be your turn.

It doesn’t work that way.  You get to pick!   And guess what, by not picking, you’re still picking.   Imagine walking backwards through life and trying to have enough time for a future. You can’t get there from there.  

It’s the same way with Life.  If you don’t pick what you want, something is bound to show up.  Chances are it might be what you want, but there’s a bigger chance it won’t be.  And, since you won’t know how or why you got what you got, how will you be confident in your ability to duplicate the process?

Think of it as a concept - create what you want by default or design.   By default things show up in my life.   If I like them, fine; if I don’t, I gripe about them.   Creating by design means I decide what I want in my life and, on purpose, I begin to bring more of it into my life by intention and choice.  

So, the first thing to do is write down some things that you want and get a feel for this new freedom.   I know there’s reality to consider, but lets suspend reality and just play with this as a concept.   If you could create the world you want, what would be different?